Hindi matapos-tapos na argumento sa kung sinong mas “matibay”, yung nag-HOLD ON o nag-LET GO?
Punto ng mga nag-hold on | “Kami ang mas malakas. Kami ang stronger. Kami ang mas matapang. Bakit? Kasi kami, kahit tinalikdan na ay buong puso paring iniaaalay ang aming puso’t pagmamahal sa taong mahal namin. Hindi kami sumusuko. Hindi man namin gawin ang lahat para makuha ang tao, maghihintay kami nang maghihintay. Dahil sabi nga sa sugalan, hindi mo alam ang mangyayari sa mga susunod na taya. TUMATAYA ka nga kung anong magiging kapalaran mo. Pero sa paghihintay mo, hindi natin alam ang maaaring maging resulta nito! Malay ko ba, baka isang araw ay mapalitan nalang ang taong mahal niya ng isang “AKO”. So, hindi masasayang ang paghihintay ko. Kumapit man ako sa patalim, mas matapang ako dahil alam kong masasaktan ako dun, ngunit narito patin ako’t naghihintay sa posibleng magandang mangyari.
Punto ng mga nag-let go | ” Do not dwell in the past, there are still so many people that you’re going to meet in the future. Better people, better socialization, better environment with them and better experiences and memories. If we keep on holding on to the thing we know has no assurance to be ours someday, we’ll just be hurt. We have to keep a 1/4 percentage (atleast) of love to ourselves and maybe give away the 3/4 left. Can’t you see that you’re stronger if you’ll say to yourself one day… “Nakapag-let go na ako.”. We must be proud we are able to let go of that one person we know is not worth our love, our care and our time. There are so many fishes in the sea. It might be hard to fish, but its priceless to catch one. If you’re once left, at least you’ve grown up and matured. That’s the important thing. If ever you enter a new relationship, you know what to avoid, do and pursue. Give and take phenomenon. You’re hurt, but then you’ll be stronger the next time you face a new man. New beginning.
(Source: greatkirby)
02 Feb 2012 @ 10:05PM / 
